德伯家的苔丝

bbc的古装剧我都挺喜欢的。
这剧是真心虐人啊，有点狗血。
造成苔丝悲剧的自身原因：
1Alex诱奸她的时候，她没有反抗，而是顺从。
2孩子出生到病重死去都没有给Alex一封信，对自己和Alex也太狠了。
3和Angel结婚前没有坦白自己的过去，埋下定时炸弹。
4Angel回来后，没有和Angel商量，自己一激动杀了Alex，这太草率了，让Alex相帮都帮不了。苔丝太一根筋了，杀掉Angel并不是和Alex在一起的出路而是死路。。毕竟Angel才是苔丝官方的丈夫，Alex并不能占有她。而Angel也有钱可以还给Alex，让苔丝父母兄弟依然可以安然生活。不管怎么样，这么大的事，不应该商量一下吗？害了Alex又害了Angel。

大概正是这种独特的性格和长相才会产生戏剧效果吧。如果每个人都做了最正确的选择，世界上怎么会有那么多悲剧呢？正因为人是感性的动物，是难以预测的动物，才会有那么多让人又爱又恨的人物，才会出现那么多让人欲罢不能的故事。所以说性格是故事的根，是戏剧的源头。

说起深刻的启示，对我而言，大概是Alex的纠结吧，人就是这样，总是要狗血一番才能够原谅别人或者自己，大把的时间浪费在了纠结上，如果Alex没有这场纠结，他和苔丝的故事就会改写。果断点，心宽点，抛弃那些世俗眼光，人生就会美好很多。

被ALEC蛊惑的少女们醒醒吧，这明明是一个披着真诚的外衣而行伪善之事的小人。明明是自己想要堕落，却把责任推给苔丝说是她迷惑了他。就像古代那些说女人是红颜祸水的卫道士们一个样。他跟ANGEL的哥哥还有那个前女友没什么两样。
而ANGEL他的可爱之处在哪里？不是他对苔丝忠贞不渝的爱，而是在生活的磨难中终于得到省悟，从当时卫道士们的重重包围下解脱出来，解开了道德的枷锁，冲破了世俗的藩篱，听从了内心的召唤。而这一点，即使是现在，恐怕也并不是所有人都能做到的。虽然有点晚了，可是终归比没有的好吧。那些说他虚伪的观众，试试代入到他的身体里就会明白，想要潇洒的原谅一个人的过去，并不是那么容易的事。而懂得反省的人，是最值得尊敬的。
可是我们普通人的生活里，恐怕还是不想要付出这么大代价去赢得真爱吧。所以，真诚这个东西，有时候还真是个双刃剑啊。

美丽善良的苔丝啊

 
虽然你只是一个小商贩的女儿 然而再高贵的公主也没有你清泉一样的双眼
虽然你没有受过正规的教育 但是你却能创作出人世间最悲惨的诗句
虽然你出身贫寒 但你身上却没有一点穷人的奴才相 高贵的气质和优雅的举止让你在挤奶时依然清新秀丽
说你不是佳丽淑女 那是因为她们不会挤奶不会种地而已


你似乎不属于人间



因为你太天真 像一个没有经过世俗沾染的孩子
没有防备之心 就像你对母亲说过的一样 你只是个孩子 没有人教你
你不知道男人为何物


可惜你那张美丽到令人窒息的脸庞并没有为你带来好运
你被恶棍夺去了作为女人最宝贵的贞洁
虽然肉体上受过玷污 但是我确信世界上没有谁比你更拥有纯洁善良的灵魂

 

然而这种肉体上被强行剥夺的失去 与你一尘不染甚至于洁癖的精神世界比又能算得了什么？ 去他妈的贞操
可是又有谁能理解你 我最亲爱的苔丝


你天使下凡般的美好 但是却没有人愿意珍惜你
为什么 是他们都瞎了狗眼吗


我在心中唾骂无数遍那些剥夺你幸福的无脑的男人
一个是只想得到苔丝肉体的禽兽不如的恶棍亚历
一个是令苔丝愿意用生命去爱的安吉尔


对于亚历 我只能说 恶有恶报 自己造的孽自己还


然而 安吉尔 苔丝心中的天使 你也一样令全世界感到失望
你这个懦夫 这个白痴 原本开明阳光的你终究还是被封建宗教的枷锁束缚
你对苔丝的爱在封建道德的现实面前显得那么渺小和无力


只因为苔丝不是处女你竟如此残忍的离开她
更何况她是被强迫 这道埋在她心中最深最痛的伤疤
作为丈夫 你不但没有帮她承担痛苦 反而把它二度撕裂 还在上面撒盐


每个夜晚 当绝望的苔丝走投无路再次流落到独自一人睡在荒郊野外的时候
我的心也像跟随了她一样 那种被撕裂的疼痛感 是如此的强烈

 

你让一个无依无靠的姑娘独自挨过无数个漫漫长夜
为了养家糊口去做最脏最累的活 受尽别人的奚落和侮辱
却一直不肯低下头去求助公婆 因为她不希望给你们家带来不好的名声
你有一个这么骄傲这么高贵的妻子 难道不是你上辈子的造化吗



但在我看来 她的生活还不如一个死了丈夫的寡妇 你还算什么男人



而坚强的苔丝 却一直顽强的忍受着这一切 一个人吞下这苦水
她咬断舌头 替你扛起了这些报应
你要明白这些不幸和痛苦本应该是你的
就像她妈妈说的 嫁给你这个绅士 对她们家不但没有一丁点好处 简直就是个灾难
 


你注定是不幸的 因为你根本就不了解苔丝
她是个道德多么纯洁高尚正直的女孩
你所在乎的那些名声面子跟她对你纯洁的无私的爱根本就没有可比性

 

你辜负她太久了

 

你混沌的猪脑终于醒悟的时候 可怜的苔丝已经被你折磨成一具行尸走肉
再次见到你 她快死的灵魂又被你点燃
终于 她不能继续忍受下去 亲手杀死了多年来骚扰她的那只披着羊皮的狼
为了证明她对你的忠贞不渝 她真的连命都不要了
当你们终于又走到了一起 她却还在不停的问你 可不可以原谅她的过去 不要丢弃她



此时我真替苔丝感到心痛



那一晚当你们终于灵肉结合的那一刻 我无法停止哭泣 我的泪水情不自禁的涌动



我可怜的苔丝 这一刻等了千万年 终于在熬过了无尽的苦难折磨后 与挚爱拥抱在一起



可这一切都晚了



太晚了

 


我在第三集听到了那首我很早就爱上那悲伤旋律和歌词的歌"the snows they melt the soonest"
早就想探究这首歌曲的源头了 只知道那是一首很老的凯尔特民谣


然而在苔丝里碰到 我一点都没感到惊讶
因为当我第一次听它 就感觉是在诉说一个悲伤的不能再悲伤的传说


那洁白无暇的的雪 总有融化的时刻
最白的 便是融化最快的
 

我美丽 纯洁 高尚 善良的苔丝啊


你不就是那片转瞬即逝的雪吗
你从天而将 只为了寻找那落入凡间的爱人 为了他你飘落了太久太久
然而 你的命运即是融化
因为纯洁如你 本应属于天堂的
 

安息吧苔丝 你是微笑着离开安吉尔的


你最终证明了自己的清白 也终于不再为自己的命运而感到迷茫 回归到天堂


在天堂 你会幸福的.

看了零八版《德伯家的苔丝》，和看波兰斯基版一样，到了杀人逃难的部分就哭得一塌糊涂。小时候看波兰斯基版，觉得苔丝太弱了；现在看，才觉得苔丝是太强，什么都揽过来扛着，她倘若肯示弱一点点，就不至于这么惨。恶少Alec虽坏，但给苔丝的伤尚且不致命，真正摧垮苔丝的其实是文艺小受Angel。
可是女人总是要袒护自己爱的那个人，不可能去责备他，只能去捅死自己不喜欢的那个。所以苔丝最后的逻辑是：只有杀了Alec，她和Angel才可以在一起。话说如果Angel内心足够强大的话，Alec又算个屁啊，他们早就可以逍遥快活了。Alec没那么坏，Angel没那么好，这是哈代笔下的现实。

I may still let myself get immersed in the tragic mood after watching Tess of the D'Urbervilles, thus this opera review will seem quite emotionally unstable, or even becoming extremism, anyway, I must write down sth. after watching this tragedy, which, to my understanding, can never be categorized as a tragic romance. Honestly, I am not sympathetic with anyone in this drama, including Tess, all of whom have been living life in their own way, no intention of being judgmental here.

 

But I must get clear on my own thoughts, why, I mean why Tess fell so much in love with Angel and ended herself up in such misery? I can not tell any merits from Angel from the very beginning, even back to that May Dance on the lawn, come on, at the first glance, I conclude that he is an emotional unstable youngster who can barely bear any responsibility, en, I am also way too poignant. He adopted dual moral standards, I bet Tess's life would be getting better, or even a happy ending with Alec or other normal but kind man without ever getting the chance to meet Angel. I am more than willing to adapt this sentence "If we had danced that day, how happy we might have be" to " If we have hadn't met on that day, how happy I might have be", poor Tess, you got the wrong way!

 

There is no doubt that Angel is a devil, but this can still make no difference to Tess if she chose to keep that secret what she has already sworn to her mum, an incapable but intelligent mum who always cared for Tess. That's to say, Tess's purity should be blamed, at least partly, for her own tragedy, devil needs counterparts not a real angel to match with each other. In the mean time, Tess is a perfectionist, she can't stand any flaws lying between Angel and herself, yes, her pursuit of perfect love without any reserve from that man she deeply loves predicts her destiny. Poor Tess, there is never ever perfect love like you imagined in the real world, why not let go of the past and move on? Purity, Perfectionism, they are far from the worst part of Tess's characters, when I saw how pleased and relieved she was after hearing Angel's confession of his own misbehavior, I can't help feeling badly sad for this poor girl, she shall know the principle of equity can't be translated into reality, especially a world ruled by men back then, which is almost the case nowadays. Till now, Purity, Perfectionism, and Principle of equity, I don't think these suffice to lead Tess to hanging, here comes the last but the most important reason: her poignancy. I feel uncomfortable to put this poor girl like this, but truth will prevail anyway. Frankly speaking, I can't resist getting angry while seeing how mean and cruel she has behaved towards Alec, whose inside equals outside, who is the only character in the drama never pretending to be an angel. I believe he really tried best to get a fresh lease of life by means of following god and disseminating his doctrine as a preacher, and he may go astray for temptation again. I am not entitled to judge whether he is a devil, but I don't think he deserves being stabbed by a bread knife. He is much better than Angel, he may ask for an exchange for his life-saving offer, come on, an imaginary angel can't save your family from starvation, but a real devil can. That's the unmerciful truth of life, fighting against it or living in untopianism may incur real troubles, which are well expressed in Tess's story.

 

Of course, we can still scold Alec as many others have already done over these years and we should despise Angel who deserves vicious blame. There is a book review telling that this story was intended to be against religious authorities, say, Christian, I should say I can't be more happy for Angel's non-belief in God, otherwise I would feel twice hurt because of his selfish behavior. Anyway, I should not be that much judgmental, as Tess's experienced mum has put it like this " This one is not different from the other".

 

In the here and now, my point is: what can we girls learn from Tess's story? Yes, it's just a fictive novel narrating a story happening long long ago and far far away...but there must be sth. in common which is applicable even today. Shortly, I emphasize that Tess' s purity, perfectionism, principle of equity, and poignancy (4P) ended herself up in hanging, and others in undeserved death or life-time self-accusation...I am currently incapable of delving deep into analyzing these "4P "characters, I however never imply that they are harmful, to the contrary, they are real goodness, which I appreciate a lot and try best to observe, in god's name. But we sometimes must adapt our principles to surroundings, not bending but catering to the society where we are born and destined to die, I must call myself a fool if I insist on becoming an angel so as to expect another one, so, come to the basics: it really matters how we live in this world, but how? I have no idea of this!

 

I will pray for God to guide me in life.

先随手写...以免忘了..

Ep1
不是最美的Tess..08的Tess好美确是真的...但是我觉得三个都有各自美好的地方...
三个版本的男人我都喜欢嘤嘤嘤><

讲的很详细...比如说马是怎么死的...

还是钟情于喂草莓的那段~只是这个版本着重写了Alec的反应，喉结翻动让我忍不住也咽了一口口水><

但是!!没有一个版本教会我吹口哨好桑感T T

比79版有多讲一些第一次见面...98版的讲了过了头...扑哧><

被提醒...诱奸不是强奸啊...这个太直接了...08和79的都比这个好